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Writer's pictureNicole S. Norton-Evans

Being Submissive is Not Slavery, it's Foreplay 😉


When it comes to relationships, there is a common misconception that a happy woman who is submissive to her husband is simply content with being controlled or dominated. However, the truth is far from that. It is not about what makes her happy, but rather who is making her happy. The person you should all want to meet is the man who has figured out how to balance a relationship, his lady, and his children in a way that is truly amazing.


This man has not only brought out the best in his lady, but he has also made her feel comfortable with being softer and more vulnerable. He has created a safe emotional space for her to express herself and be her true self. He has taken the time to study her and understand her needs, and he is so secure in himself that he does not have to worry about her straying. This man knows that submission does not mean being a slave to him, but rather that his lady will do whatever it takes to take care of him and ease his mind.


In return, the woman becomes his peace and his source of love, foreplay, and emotional support. Even a simple text or phone call from him is a form of foreplay for her, preparing her for when they are together. This level of clarity and communication can only be found in mature relationships, where both partners value and respect each other's feelings and needs.


When a man hurts a woman, it is not enough to simply apologize and expect things to go back to normal. The work begins in rebuilding trust and making sure that she feels emotionally safe with him again. This requires listening to what she is not saying, paying attention to her body language, and most importantly, having empathy for her feelings.


By taking the time to truly understand and connect with the person you love, you will find that the relationship becomes stronger and more fulfilling. Trust is not easily earned back, but with patience, understanding, and genuine effort, it is possible to rebuild a bond that is even stronger than before. The key is to keep your word, show consistency, and make sure that the person you hurt knows that you are serious about making things right.


A happy and submissive woman is not a weak or controlled individual, but rather a strong and loving partner who is willing to do whatever it takes to make her man happy. The man who can appreciate and reciprocate this love and support is truly a rare find, and one worth cherishing.

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This article is extremely focused. It hit every detail when it comes to how men view submission. I'm sure there are more topics that will come out of this one but I must say it was on point. Good read.

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